You have your loved one’s cremated remains inside something called a “temporary urn.” What is it, and what should you do with it?
After all, this isn’t something you do every day.
What Is a Temporary Urn?
Temporary urns are small containers, typically made of plastic or durable cardboard, that hold your loved one’s remains inside, securely enclosed in a plastic bag.
The funeral home or crematorium uses these to give you the remains when you have not purchased an urn from them. Most standard temporary urns measure approximately 8.5″ x 6.5″ x 4.5″, though there are other some other sizes on the market.
Why Is It Called a Temporary Urn?
The “temporary urn” is called that to subtly convince you that you need to buy an expensive “permanent” urn.
But guess what – you can keep the remains in that temporary urn as long as you like!
How to Use a Temporary Urn
Here’s what you can do with the temporary urn:
Keep it. The remains will be just fine in the “temporary” urn.
Bury it. Most cemeteries will require a burial vault to protect the grounds, but you can bury the temporary urn as-is.
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Put it inside another urn. Some people don’t want to open the temporary urn, so they’ll place the whole thing inside another urn. You’ll need an extra-large urn for that (and it really, really isn’t necessary) but we have options for this below.
Use it for scattering. It’s not the ideal choice for scattering (there are urns specifically designed for that) but it can be done and costs you nothing. Learn more here.
Take the remains out and toss it. Pull out the plastic bag of remains, place the remains into a new urn, and toss the temporary urn. We’ll talk more about this next.
How to Transfer Cremated Remains into a Permanent Urn
But what if you are planning on keeping a loved one’s cremated remains (also called “ashes”) in an urn in your home?
Here are some options on how to handle the transfer of remains from the temporary plastic or cardboard urn into a more beautiful urn.
1. Transfer the Ashes Yourself
Making the transfer yourself is easier than you might think.
- Open the permanent urn (here’s how)
- Open the cardboard or plastic temporary urn
- Remove the plastic bag containing the cremains
- Place the sealed plastic bag into the permanent urn, then reattach the urn’s lid (for most ceramic, glass, and metal vase-shaped urns) or bottom opening panel (for most rectangular metal, stone, or wood urns).
Optionally, you may use wood glue or caulking as a sealant, but this is not required as long as the ashes remain in the plastic bag.
2. Have the Funeral Home Transfer the Ashes
If you are uncomfortable with handling the remains, the funeral home or crematorium will transfer the remains into your cremation urn for you.
Funeral homes are required by law to use the container of your choice, even if it is purchased from an outside source. Most funeral homes are very nice about doing this for you.
If you purchase the urn in a timely manner, you can have it delivered to the funeral home or bring it in when it’s time to pick up the remains after the cremation process is complete.
If the urn takes longer, or you take your time deciding, you can usually pick up the remains in the temporary urn and take them home. Then, when you get the permanent urn, bring the empty urn and the plastic temporary urn back to the funeral home, and they will transfer the remains for you. (Just talk to your funeral director about this.)
3. Place the Temporary Urn Inside a Permanent Urn
Urns Northwest offers several urns which will hold some of the standard sizes of temporary urns, so that you can simply insert the entire cardboard or plastic urn into the permanent urn.
Custom Sized Urns
Additionally, we can build some of these urns and chests to custom specifications, in order to fit the dimensions of your temporary urn.
Additional charges may apply (depending on your needs), but generally the shop crew tries to figure out the simplest modifications to keep costs down for you. Contact us for custom sizing inquiries.
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My brother is in a temporary urn wil anything happen
Hi Lola,
You can keep the remains in a “temporary urn” as long as you like. It’s just what they call the simple plastic boxes, it subtly encourages you to buy a more expensive urn but you are free to leave the remains in that and just call it a permanent urn if you prefer!
Can the ashes be placed in a stoneware jar with a lid? Can this covered jar be placed in the ground vault for burial? Is it instead mandatory to purchase a cremation urn for the burial in the ground vault?
Hi Margaret,
Yes, the ashes can be placed in a stoneware jar. You will probably want to seal it somehow, with some sort of caulk that will adhere to stone. Yes, it can be placed in the vault. No, it is not mandatory to purchase a creation urn – you are legally allowed to use any container you like. However it may have to fit within certain specifications (for example, here’s one that you’ll always run into: It must fit into the burial vault).
For more information, read “What do I need to bur from the funeral home?“
Hi Margaret,
Yes, the ashes can be placed in a stoneware jar. You will probably want to seal it somehow, with some sort of caulk that will adhere to stone. Yes, it can be placed in the vault. No, it is not mandatory to purchase a creation urn – you are legally allowed to use any container you like. However it may have to fit within certain specifications (for example, here’s one that you’ll always run into: It must fit into the burial vault).
For more information, read “What do I need to bur from the funeral home?“
Are the plastic temporary urns waterproof?
Hi Carolyn,
The plastic temporary urns are water resistant, but not waterproof. They typically have a folded or snap closure, which means that there will be gaps through which water can come. Inside, the remains are in a plastic bag, which will protect the remains from minimal water damage but not submersion in water, because generally these bags are simply twist-tied shut. In short, the temporary plastic urns will be safe for rain or accidental splashing, but won’t keep water out if submerged. I hope this helps!