What Happens at a Military Honors Funeral?

What Happens at a Military Honors Funeral?

Nothing is as stirring as a military funeral. It is a very patriotic and moving experience.

What is going to happen? Will there be a 21 gun salute? Will a rendition of Taps be played?

What is the difference between standard military funeral honors and full honors? If you don’t know what to expect, read on to find out.

But we’ll warn you – reading about a Military Honors Funeral and experiencing it are two very different feelings!

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VA Burial Benefits

VA Burial Benefits: How to Make Sure the Funeral is Paid For

Are you or your spouse a veteran? If so, you have earned certain benefits through your service to the country.

What are burial benefits? How do you claim them? Who can claim the benefits? What other benefits can you collect?

Read on to find out all you need to know about burial benefits and how to claim them so that the veteran’s funeral is paid for.

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Funeral Toast Ideas

Funeral Toasts: How to Toast Someone Who Has Died

Is it appropriate to toast a deceased loved one? The short answer is “Yes!”

But don’t stand up at the funeral with a bottle of whiskey in your hand. You will find yourself unceremoniously removed! The best place for the toast is usually after the funeral. Save your toast for the reception, or for a private family gathering.

Still, you will want to be prepared if you are called on to give a memorial toast. What should you say?

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How to Collect Cremated Remains

Unclaimed Ashes? How to Collect Cremated Remains & More

How do you collect cremated remains after cremation? What happens to unclaimed ashes?

People often have questions about how the cremation process works, plus how and when they can expect to get the ashes back. There are other questions, too: Can I have a family member pick up the remains? What if a family member tries to claim the ashes, but I don’t want them to?

We have the answers to all these and more below.

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Living Funerals

Living Funerals: How to Have a Funeral Before You Die

Living funerals are becoming quite the trend. A “living funeral” is just like a regular funeral, but with one giant twist – you’re alive.

Wait… isn’t that a total contradiction? Can you really have a funeral before you die?

And why would you want to? What’s it like, why do people do it, and what do you do if you’re invited to one?

Read on to find out exactly what this idea is, where it originated, and how you can have your own living funeral.

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What You Need to Know about Inhibited Grief

Inhibited Grief: 10 Things to Know About Suppressed Grief

Today we’re going to look at inhibited grief.

Grief is a person’s response to a loss. Any loss of something you held importantly can cause a grief reaction. The whirlwind of emotions is a completely normal response to trials, tragedy, and bereavement.

But… Are you trying to avoid your pain and loss? Are you keeping yourself occupied, so you don’t think about your grief? Is your grief discouraged, impeded, restrained, or inhibited?

Read on to find out how your grief may be affecting you and those around you.

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What is the standard size urn?

Urn Sizes: How to Pick the Right Urn for Ashes

As you’re shopping around for a memorial urn, you might realize that there are quite a few different urn sizes.

How do you know what size urn you need?

Here’s our guide to urn sizes – inside, outside, and for all types and purposes. Read on to learn everything you need to know to choose the right sized urn.

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Laws of Home Burials

Can You Legally Bury Someone In Your Backyard? (& How)

Are you considering home burial for yourself or a loved one? Can you bury someone in your backyard if you want to?

The quick answer to these questions is “yes.”

While home funerals and burials are generally still viewed as old-fashioned alternatives to funeral services and cemeteries, they are making a comeback as a “green” alternative.

Of course, there are always legal and practical caveats, and we’ll cover some of those today. But no matter the reasons you are looking into home burial, whether personal, religious, or financial, it’s a really good idea to know the facts before you dig in.

We’ve done our best to gather those facts for you here. Let’s take a look.

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Grave Rubbing

How to Do a Grave Rubbing (and When Not To)

Grave rubbing is a fun hobby enjoyed by many people. But it does raise some concerns…

Is a grave rubbing legal? Does it damage the headstone?

Are there laws or regulations concerning gravestone rubbing? Are there alternative ways to do the same thing?

So many questions to be answered! Read on, friends, and find out what you want and need to know about grave rubbings!

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Interesting images of funerals and cemeteries

14 Fascinating Funeral Photos

Let’s take a look at some quirky and interesting funeral photos.

Every person who has ever lived has, or will soon have, the need for a funeral.

Since life is so full of wonder, interest, intrigue, mystery, humor, and much more, it should be no surprise that death would have its share of the strange and wonderful.

Here is our collection of fascinating funeral photos that capture a small hint of the paradoxical beauty, unsolvable mystery, odd irony, and morbid humor of funerals.

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